FAQ for Submissives Seeking to Serve Domina Yuki
Psychological Domination and Power Exchange in the San Francisco Bay Area
This page addresses common questions from submissives and is intended to clarify fit and expectations.
To save both My time and yours, read this page in its entirety.
What are Your boundaries?
- Absolutely no sex and illegal activities
- Age play
- Brown (FTT) and roman
- Wrestling
- Emotional immaturity
- Enemas
- Play that causes lasting damage
- Pegging
- Race play
- Scripted scenes
How may i address You?
You may call me Domina Yuki or Mistress Yuki.
What is Your tribute?
All sessions are bespoke and designed to reflect the experience I wish to share with you. Tribute amount is provided after I have reviewed your application.
I keep my schedule intentionally light so I can remain fully present and deeply engaged with the select few I choose. My tribute reflects My years of experience, thoughtful preparation, and the care I bring to each dynamic.
What is Your availability?
It varies from week to week. I am generally available from 11am-10pm.
Can i make a same day appointment?
No.
What is Your late, cancellation, and rescheduling policy?
Late policy: If you are late, I expect to be compensated for our scheduled time in its entirety.
Cancellation & rescheduling policy: I understand things come up that can’t be helped, but cancellations and rescheduling affect not just Me but also the other Dommes that I share space with.
Our time is extremely valuable, and must be treated accordingly.
- Cancellation with less than 12 hours notice: full session fee expected
- Cancellation with 12–48 hours notice: half of session fee expected
- Cancellation with more than 48 hours notice: deposit forfeited but no further fee is expected
- Rescheduling with less than 12 hours notice: half session fee expected
- Rescheduling with 12 or more hours notice: deposit forfeited but no other fees are expected if rescheduled session takes place within the following 2 weeks
- No call, no show: assuming nothing dire has happened to you en route to our session, you will be expected to pay the full fee of our planned session. Should you fail to do this, you will be permanently banned from seeing Me.
How should i prepare for a session with You?
I notice subs who take the effort to make a good impression. Make sure you have thoroughly read all information provided on my website and in my emails.
Be tidy, clean, and well groomed. Be sure you are thoroughly cleaned out if we are engaging in specific activities that require extra cleanliness.
Sloppiness and bad hygiene are extremely unattractive to Me.
Arrive well rested, hydrated, and sober.
Do not wear cologne or perfume.
Have your tribute in an unsealed envelope. Including a card with a thoughtful message puts a smile on my face.
Do You take outfit requests?
No. I wear what pleases Me.
Can I bring you a gift?
I am always delighted to receive gifts. They are a great way to make a good impression and show your devotion.
What is your favorite activity?
Above all else, I value energy exchange. Responsiveness and authentic expression are what please and energize Me.
I have had wonderful exchanges involving a range of activities, anywhere from light BDSM to intense corporal sessions.
Do you play with novices?
Yes, I take great pleasure in exploring with submissives who are new to BDSM. Many who come to Me are seeking their first real-world experience after spending time fantasizing and exploring privately.
I create an atmosphere that feels grounded and welcoming. You will be met with warmth and care. Through my confident, steady guidance, you are supported in discovering what truly moves you.
What qualities does Your ideal submissive possess?
I am drawn to those similar to Me — driven and discerning, with an appetite for self discovery and growth.
Courtesy, thoughtfulness, generosity of spirit, and emotional maturity are essential. Other qualities I value deeply are clear and honest communication, loyalty, curiosity, vulnerability, and integrity.
I align with subs who value submission as a way of being rather than a means to sexual release.
How do I become Your collared submissive?
Collaring is not something I take lightly.
Any consideration of collaring unfolds over an extended period of training and demonstrated devotion through “Devotional Servitude” listed under Acts of Service.
During that time, I observe emotional maturity, personal responsibility, attentiveness, consistency, and the ability to serve without entitlement.
As a collared submissive, you are expected to dedicate time, energy, or resources toward supporting My well-being and contributing meaningfully to My life.
This level of connection is developed deliberately and rarely offered.
It is not entered casually, but earned through presence, effort, integrity, and sustained commitment.
If this feels disappointing or excessive to you, you are not the right fit for Me.